Warmed By An Old Flame
Dear Chickbait
So.. I recently tracked down an old flame and found out she is currently in a serious relationship with someone else. I have this nagging desire to email her daily. My excuse is that I am trying to help her find a job because he hates Dallas and wants to move back to NWA.
Please tell me why getting entangled in an old relationship where the other party is already involved with someone is a very bad idea. And/or comment on why I should be a home wrecker and take her for myself!!!
Thank you!
There is something to be said for an old flame. Obviously, there must have been good parts of the relationship or you wouldn't be tempted to take her back. Of course, since they are an ex that must mean there were also problems in the relationship, what relationship doesn't have them you might ask, but still you should know what they were/would be in the future. It's important that you consider these things anytime you are considering hooking up with an ex, but it's especially important when that person is in another relationship. That is, of course, unless you just want a good lay and you happen to know that this is a good place to get that. It also depends on how you feel about the flame? Are you wanting to get into a real relationship with this person and make it last? If so, probably it would be best to at least get them to break up with their current girl before you initiate starting more than a platonic relationship with her. Or, back to the great source of a lay. If you don't want a relationship, the chickbait rule of thumb is act first, and think later. This is an even better option if you think she may be coming to town to try to get a job, but might not stay. Why not have some fun for old times sake? Sure, something more might develop, but if not, at least you had fun along the way!
-Chickbait
So.. I recently tracked down an old flame and found out she is currently in a serious relationship with someone else. I have this nagging desire to email her daily. My excuse is that I am trying to help her find a job because he hates Dallas and wants to move back to NWA.
Please tell me why getting entangled in an old relationship where the other party is already involved with someone is a very bad idea. And/or comment on why I should be a home wrecker and take her for myself!!!
Thank you!
There is something to be said for an old flame. Obviously, there must have been good parts of the relationship or you wouldn't be tempted to take her back. Of course, since they are an ex that must mean there were also problems in the relationship, what relationship doesn't have them you might ask, but still you should know what they were/would be in the future. It's important that you consider these things anytime you are considering hooking up with an ex, but it's especially important when that person is in another relationship. That is, of course, unless you just want a good lay and you happen to know that this is a good place to get that. It also depends on how you feel about the flame? Are you wanting to get into a real relationship with this person and make it last? If so, probably it would be best to at least get them to break up with their current girl before you initiate starting more than a platonic relationship with her. Or, back to the great source of a lay. If you don't want a relationship, the chickbait rule of thumb is act first, and think later. This is an even better option if you think she may be coming to town to try to get a job, but might not stay. Why not have some fun for old times sake? Sure, something more might develop, but if not, at least you had fun along the way!
-Chickbait
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